Outside Looking In.....

I have realized through my own road to transformation, I have been selfish. I am not sure if this is a good thing or not as I have spent so many months/years focusing on everyone else and how to make their life better. I have never lived for myself. Today, I stand struggling as I see people around me experiencing heartache or anger as they (like me) are beginning a new chapter of their life. I think, maybe, I am seeing it before they are realizing it.

As you know, I'm an HUGE Eat Pray Love fan.. so of course my morning routines required to read a daily Elizabeth Gilbert quote... It's inspirational! :) Anyways, I stumbled upon the following quote:

 "You take whatever works from wherever you can find it, and you keep moving toward the light."

And in the midst of not only my own revelation, I realize we all have our own paths in life. Whatever works for me is not necessarily what is best for others. My situations, my relationship, my lifestyle, who I am... It's my journey. I am not looking for acceptance from others any longer. I am looking to be okay with me. I'm looking for confidence, strength, and an identity.

Others who are experiencing trials and tribulations have their journey. I think transitioning from one chapter in our lives to another takes time. They should hold on to whatever works for them. From the outside looking in, it is my job to not judge them or even offer up guidance to them. What I can be is a friend. A shoulder to cry on, and the ear for listening. I mean, at the end of the day my only want is for those I love to find happiness. They deserve it more than they realize. I have nothing but faith that they will...no matter how long it takes.